Mothers and fathers have to educate the task their girls and boy to a societyable member of our community. They reach this by the education, because a good child room is essential with one another for a good.

Education takes place already in the beginnings of our future. These years coin/shape our entire behavior, which is to be changed later only with difficulty. Desired behaviors are established by education. It goes arranging therefore social values and standards for children and young people and to set for them also borders. Because only by learning social standards and values it is to be adapted to the girls and boys in such a way possible their behavior the social value conceptions and into the community be merged.

For this they must become “equipped” with authority and abilities, which solidify themselves in the course of their childhood and youth time. For this it counts that they become self-confident personalities and with self-respect to meet as well as a health consciousness develop. They must keep borders and exercise self-check. It is to place themselves importantly to problems and be conflict-able as well as be able with strokes of fate to deal. On the way to children and young people must learn social contacts attach to imagine themselves into others and respect other opinions. For itself they must feel joy of life and develop own future prospects.

If these fundamental authority is arranged for the girls and boys, them this makes possible to integrate itself into the social life. They attain social authority and their personality are lastingly strengthened. These again are important factors in the force and craze prevention. 

Components of the education

There is a long list with things, which should arrange mothers and fathers for their children in the education. Here are some examples:

Girls and boys need to respect itself the ability to esteem themselves and to develop confidence into the own abilities. One speaks also of I strength. Girls and boys attain this, even if mothers and fathers have confidence into their children, it aufmuntern and them again and again mediate: “You create. We are proud on you.” Girls and boys construct such strong a self-confident its. Then they know also against others, as for example their friends, place themselves, and to say: No, I would not like that. No, I do not go through. They should be able themselves to say that they are valuable.

Children and young people must learn to control themselves and frustrations withstand. They must learn with the fact that they cannot have or reach everything immediately. Because there are borders to keep. So they must learn for example that there are arrangements for the meal of sweets and these are for example briefly forbidden before the meal. If these rules in the family were set up, also mothers and fathers must adhere to it.

Problems to place itself, children must likewise learn. They must be able conflicts to deliver in the situation its and by them under wars not leave themselves. Maximum stress belongs to likewise. Problems to place, children learn themselves for example if they must ring with the neighbor, in order to ask for the ball, which flew them when playing inadvertently over the fence. It is likewise important that they learn controversy among themselves to clarify, without parents intervene.

Girls and boys should deal carefully with their body. For this they must get health consciousness mediated. That means the fact that they should pay attention to their nutrition that it in addition, health-endangering behavior, how likewise should avoid the benefit of alcohol and cigarettes like sleep and lack of movement or stress. A varied nutrition, firm meal times or - rituals show the children that they must pay attention to their nutrition. Mothers and fathers should likewise make certain that the children go to intended a time to bed and not for many kinds of sport or leisure activities to follow, so that they have sufficient resting and recovery phases.

The behavior and handling other humans must be learned. Therefore is important it to learn, how one attaches social contacts, maintains her and if necessary also breaks it off. Among it likewise the ability ranks into the feelings of other humans to appear itself. Girls and boys must be able to learn children and young people of the same age to know. But it is important that they go into the kindergarten, in which to basic school time in leisure activities participates and in the youth time with friends “depends”.

Apart from the perception of the feelings of others it importantly also the own feelings is to be respected. To notice it to permit and express.

Thus likewise the ability goes being able to enjoy instants and joy of life have. That means that mothers and fathers should remain in the discussion with their children. Ask, how its child is, how the school day was or about what they were annoyed. Joy of life to have for example also cordially with one another to laugh meant to the tears come or in the summer together barefoot over the wet lawn to run.

 

Girls and boys must discover a sense of the life. Develop future prospects, which are realistic and can on them work for itself. For mothers and fathers this means to look for each other that her their daughters and sons to jolly an apprentice position, which makes fun for them and which corresponds to its inclinations.

 

Also children and young people must learn handling difficult situations and strokes of fate. Because some things, as for example the loss or acquaintance relatives for close, one can change or for it not prepare. But one must bear and to project be able these situations. But mothers and fathers should the girls and boys therefore strokes of fate do not conceal them to show that the family is in difficult times for each other there. That they listen themselves mutually with grief and that with all the mourning, that continues to can be done to lives.

 

The way to is long. Mothers and fathers affect this way considerably. Above all the own behavior of parents becomes the example for children and young people. Education means not to make girls and boy regulations and set limits, but a model to be for the values and standards which can be obtained. The way of social learning and the personality stabilization is long, on that mothers and fathers their girls and boys with much patience, love and confidence to accompany should. 

 

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